Versatile men are pretty much the bisexuals of the gay world. They’re told they don’t exist, they get blamed for the spread of HIV, and everybody keeps pressuring them to just pick one and stick to it.
Wow. Actually, versatile men are treated a lot like bisexuals. I’m going to take a wild stab and suggest that it’s because people, no matter their orientation or identity, tend to get uncomfortable with the idea that someone can have interests in seemingly polar opposites. (But there are gay Catholics, right…?) Read More